blogger design challenge: bridesmaid8

I always count on Martha and her blog, Nibs, to provide a world of inspiration. Her style is unique and never fails to take me away to a world filled with floral and fantasy. Her two collections are completely magical and full of charm. Thanks Martha!
One Dress, Two Ways; #1.: Ralph lauren ruffle shirt worn under J.Crew dress in navy blue. shoes from faryl robin custom dyed blue. hair style. cuff bracelet from 1928 Jewelry. Bouquet of sandersonia.

One Dress, Two Ways; #2.: Princess Caplet in Soft Chunky by knitwear designer Wenlan Chia. Silver sandals by Stuart Weitzman. Dragon fly hair barrette from 1928 jewelry. Custom satin brocade evening wrist bag from Etsy seller pennytinkertailor. Bouquet of roses, lupines, delphiniums, stocks and daisies.

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You remember Jesse and her cooler than cool destination wedding from a previous post. Clearly, she is a girl with enough style to spread around. I was excited to see what she put together for the bridesmaid challenge. And much like her wedding, it's totally hot!

Jesse writes, This was harder than I thought. Mostly because I was so tempted to pair the beautiful navy dress with a vibrant kelly green or buttery yellow. Those colors just work so nicely. But, in the end, it's really about you, the bride. And I fully believe you should be the flashiest thing in the room. So I decided to go a bit more sedate with the accessories. Perhaps even a little classy. Well, my version of classy anyhow. I had to throw in the mustache. I mean, they'd just be so much fun in the pictures.


BCBG satin pump; $210. Abigail Percy anemone outline hoop earrings via Etsy; $260. Hayden-Harnett oyster clutch wallet; $170. Something's Hiding In Here mustache via Etsy; $60. And if you crave more upper lip humor, check out Etsy Storque: My Top 10 Moustaches.

blogger design challenge: bridesmaid6

Here's a short bio about a girl named Tasha. She's a friend I've never met (yet) but apparently we are what my best friend Megan calls my doppelgangers. (dpl-gngr, -gng-) 1: a ghostly counterpart of a living person 2a: double 2a b: alter ego


Tasha writes blog called The Florentine Orphan in between planning a fall wedding for 2008. Shockingly, she even considered these same J.Crew dresses for her bridesmaids. The other similarities are endless, including our tendencies for indecision, our love of all things Italian and best of all our friend Megan.

Tasha writes, Ok, so I originally wanted to do a cool green color as the accent...and while I found some shoes, it was impossible to find a purse and other accessories. Then I had gathered all these fuchsia items and saw that 2 people posted fuchsia (even the same shoes!). I know you mentioned grey but i found these light pink shoes that I just loved so I went with light pink.
Sterling Silver CZ Pear Dangle Earrings via Overstock.com; $35. 1940s Giuseppe Zanotti Design peep-toe shoe in a blush satin-and-snakeskin pump punctuated with a rhinestone brooch; $495.

tell me, no wait! don't say a thing

If anyone was lucky enough to attend last night's SATC Premiere in NYC, please. Keep every bit of it to yourself. Just tell me one thing. That dress. It was all just a dream. Yes?

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Didi, another recent bride and blogger extraordinaire, has been kind enough not only to lend her talents to honeymoon planning but styling as well. This Little Winter Bride managed to put together the most captivating collection of bridesmaid details ever. Her collection epitomizes Something Borrowed, Something Blue as it bring together vintage pieces and old world elegance as well as beautiful blue. Grazie Millie, Didi! I love it all, as always.

FLOWERS: blue-black privet berries with sweet peas and narcissus, by matthew robbins at ArtFool via Martha Stewart. SHOES: custom order Manolo Blahnik, style is Posilla, in navy blue suede but it could also be in a navy blue satin, approx. $555 or $600. The vintage shoe buckle, $25, I bought at Family Jewels Vintage Clothing, NYC .WRAP: gold floral and tulle wrap by Meg Park. EARRINGS: pearl, sapphire and diamond Victorian earrings by Fay Cullen; $2,250. HANDBAG: little gold mesh bag from Step Toes Antiques; aprox. $80. HANDBAG: little white beaded mesh bag, $49 from Retro Designer Deals

blogger design challenge: bridesmaid4

Newly married, Vane from Brooklyn Bride based her two bridesmaids looks on color which is no surprise considering she has a knack for all things modern and bold. For a sneak peak at her wedding and the stylish bridesmaids dresses she selected, check out her blog. Above: Chloé Ines box clutch; $1,380. Christian Louboutin Very Noeud slingbacks; $795. Annette Ferdinandsen Coral Branch Hoop Earrings; $675. Below: Miu Miu Python and suede sandals; $755. VBH Ostrich leather clutch; $1,850. Cathy Waterman Green Tourmaline Earrings; $5,000.

blogger design challenge: bridesmaid3

As if the title weren't enough to thrill you, Peonies and Polaroids is filled with charming finds and pretty pictures. Cara from Peonies and Polaroids submitted the following collection (with a twist!) She writes, "I have gone for matching jewellery for all of the 'maids and also put each bridesmaid in their own choice of fuchsia shoes and blue feather and flower headdresses from Twigs and Honey. It's rather less classic and a lots less sophisticated than the two that you have posted so far, which are both gorgeous. Oh, I would kill for those Prada rhinestones heels and the gold metallic bolero!" Get in line Cara. Everyone is going nuts over those Prada shoes but you certainly know how to pick 'em. I think my bridesmaids are dreaming of fuchsia as we speak.

Rosa Necklace from Debra Mack; $90. Headdresses from Twigs and Honey;
Very Noeud Christian Louboutin from Net-a-Porter; $795. Jelissa satin shoes from Piperlime; $100. Rosa Earrings from Debra Mack; $90. Suede Lady Grès Christian Louboutin.

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Fresh from her own wedding, Erica of Thoughtful Day was kind enough to play along and pick out the most glamorous accessories for the bridesmaid challenge. I love her vintage take on the look from the mile high silhouettes to the hand stitched flowers and of course, the bolero. I am such a fan Erica! Above: Jimmy Choo Mirrored Slingback Sandal; $725. Suzy Fabrikant Diamond Bliss Earrings at Neiman Marcus; $2210.00. Marni hand stitched fabric petals handbag; $1545. Below: Ben Amun Three-Color Bracelet at Saks; $200. Vintage Glitzy Gold Metallic Bolero via Etsy; $20.

blogger design challenge: bridesmaid

I've asked a few of my new blog friends to help with a little design challenge. No rules, no prize. Just fun. The challenge: Accessorize the following dress to your heart's content. Shoes, jewelry, hairstyle, handbag. You name it.


I sent them each a photo of the bridesmaids dresses my wedding party and I selected. FYI- I am in LOVE with these dresses. Erica picked the same one in yellow for her wedding. Isn't it pretty?

First up, Jessie from Zesty Perspective. Jessie's blog is a mix of the unexpected, so it's no wonder she selected a trio of items with sharp detail. You gotta love a girl who can mix high fashion with everyday style. Thanks Jessie!

Prada sand satin rhinestone heel pumps via bluefly; $510.00. Xhilaration® Elongated Clutch via Target; $14.99. Freshwater Cultured Pearl Lattice Bracelet with Sterling Silver via BlueNile; $80.

travel tips

Today is Wednesday and Didi of LittleWinterBride has published another dreamy guide to Italy as part of her Little Honeymoon Adventures series. Consider her blog a pocket guide to paradise.
This morning I was disturbed to hear that several airlines will now be tacking on fees for checked baggage. As if traveling wasn't hard enough. I travel light but not that light. And with the Euro still working against us, I'm wondering what kind of impact this will have anyone planning a European honeymoon. I consider myself a seasoned traveler. Travel has been part of my weekly routine for the past 6 years or so. I currently commute between Philadelphia and NYC on a regular basis. My previous job took me in and out of most U.S. cities as well as some foreign countries. I am truly lucky and dangerously addicted. I currently work from home when I'm not on the road but I fear I've lost the ability (or desire) to stay in one place. In any case, I've spent a serious amount of time packing, unpacking and thinking about packing. One of the blogs I read regularly is written by Jessica McDougall. Her tips on how to travel are spot on and truly stylish. I've picked up a few pointers as well, mostly regarding safety and smart travel.

1. Always look your best. When flying long distances, it's such a treat to fly first class. I always book coach but there are also times when I've been bumped up. Airlines are more likely to bump you up first class if you look the part. I have a few travel suites I can wear for hours on end without looking wrinkled or stiff. Sweats are a big no, no matter what time my flight departs.

2. With that in mind, I always pack slip-ons in my carry on. I wouldn't dream of walking through security in my bare feet, so slippers are a must. Also, long flights can be hard on your muscles. Studies have concluded that prolonged immobility may be a risk factor in the formation of blood clots in the legs. So kick off those heels, walk around regularly and give your feet the opportunity to breathe.

3. You can never be too careful. I try to be cautious to the point of crazy. When checking into a hotel, never let the front desk person announce your room out loud. They should hand you a key with the room number printed on the envelope and leave it at that. Additionally, hotels should know better than to place a single female on the first floor. As a matter of principle, I never accept a room located on the first floor of any hotel, especially if it has a patio door leading outside. When having food delivered, I always ask the delivery person to wait outside while I review and sign the check. And I don't lounge at hotel bars alone, ever. When I need to relax on the road, I find a local wine shop and splurge on a regional bottle and of course, a glossy magazine.

Care to share your own travel tips? I'd love to hear them. Tomorrow, I'll have more on how to pack and items I never leave home without. Bon Voyage!

it's always snowing in philadelphia?

Who knew. Jennifer Aniston and Owen Wilson are busy getting married here in Philadelphia! Who knew it was also snowing yesterday? I guess that is the magic of Hollywood, or in this case, Philadelphia. It turns out they are here filming scene for the movie Marley & Me. I was in town yesterday but didn't catch either the dress or the duo.

designer spotlight: farmerjulie

I'm happy to spotlight Etsy seller Julie and her handmade pottery. I think you'll agree that she is quite an inspiration! Julie has a knack for flowers and and all things handmade. Now a mother of four, Julie used to own a string of flowers stands in southern California called "Blooms." One day, she sold the stands, moved to Idaho and took a ceramics class. And the rest is history. Julie's blog is also a wealth of inspiration. Her post on putting together a perennial centerpiece is straight out of Martha Stewart as is her tutorial on arranging flowers. Yesterday's post on diy decor was fun and got me thinking about other resources for handmade centerpieces. While I admire the work of over the top event designers like Preston Bailey, my personal preference is a much simpler look that is reminiscent of rustic Tuscany. Julie's pieces fit the mold. They are undoubtedly handmade and handsome. I love the bold shapes and smooth quality. Don't they make you want to open another bottle of wine, kick up your feet and have an all night dinner party? An expert gardener, Julie also owned a few flower business for twenty years in Corona del mar California which she started when she was just 20 years old! While she owned them, she did a lot of wedding, parties and events and sold a lot of cut flowers. I always had a garden, and loved gardening. I decided to be a flower grower. I sold at the Boise farmers market. I decided after one season it wasn't for me. I still grow a LARGE amount of flowers that can be cut and put in my vases. Then I took a pottery class. I always wanted to do pottery, but never had time with the shops. Now that I had some time, I fell in love with the medium. Well..I started to make vases, for my flowers of course. And for fun i started selling them on the Internet and getting some feedback of what people thought. Thomas O`Brien from New York the famous designer bought three of them! I took it as a sign, and bought myself a pottery wheel, and kiln, and set up shop in the barn about a hundred yards from out house. There was a tack room in there, and I changed it into my little studio. That was I can work when the kids are in school, and not have to drive to the pottery center.What inspires my work? Candlestick glass. It has the little balls on top. The handles I get inspired by McCoy Pottery. I do custom bouquets, will do local weddings and custom pottery.. I also do custom hanging baskets, window boxes and flower pots. Oh, my favorite flowers? I love all flowers. I love monochromatic..and interesting foliage. Roses are great for wedding if they are arranged right. simple and elegant. Thanks Julie!



{All photos courtesy of Julie's shop and blog}

reader question: boleros

I received the following question from Yolanda in Burlington, VT. She wrote, I am desperately seeking a beautiful bolero to wear with my dress. I love the one pictures in "under wraps" by Elizabeth Gillett. It would be perfect for my wedding and with my dress, however, as it's from a bit ago I doubt I'll be able to find it. Could you direct me to any sites or stores that might carry something similar? Thank you for any help!
Great questions Yolanda. I am a bolero girl myself. But first a little lesson in fashion. A bolero is a very short jacket worn open in the front as well as a lively Spanish dance. Check out this tutorial from one of my favorite blogger, Nibs.
Boleros are becoming more and more popular as brides stick to tradition and cover up for their religious ceremonies. Photographer and beautiful bride Laura Novack choose this Birnbaum and Bullock bolero for her winter wedding. I am partial to her look since Birnbaum and Bullock is where I bought my dress as well. Below, Jennifer Hudson sports a python patterned bolero.As for shopping for boleros, I would start with your favorite bridal shop. Most shops carry boleros specifically designed for their gowns, as in the case of Brinbaum & Bullock. If vintage is more your style, scour second hand stores or search online. I found this 1930's Lace Bolero Jacket after a quick google search. For handmade boleros, try Etsy or Modish. Many of the designers I've spoken with are more than happy to create something custom to suite your look. If you love the look of lace, try Jessica McClintock's lace bolero or Harrison Morgan Ribbon Bolero Jacket both via ShopStyle. From top: Sexy matador’s bolero features sheer lace sleeves and crinkled folds; it covers a gathered and pleated doupioni gown with a big bloom perched on the hip, both shrug and dress about $2,500, by Pronovias. Ivory silk satin organza spiral cascade bolero & strapless column gown by Monique Lhuillier. Birnbaum and Bullock. Above, Merino wool knitted chunky cropped bolero from Constance Eyre. Below, handmade shrug from Etsy seller Fringe.

diy decor

With every new catalogue that arrives in the mail, I'm inspired to stock up and save. Memorial Day is almost here and you know what that means. Sales, sales, sales! My favorite resources for do-it-yourself decor are all cleaning house and the opportunity to save on style has never been better. Flipping through the Pottery Barn, CB2 and West Elm catalogues is always a thrill. Even more so when the prices are slashed and I've got centerpieces on my mind. If you're planning a summer wedding, you really have it made. Nothing looks better than brightly colored glass against springs best blooms. At top left: West Elm artisanal vase collection in blue; set of 3 for $52. At right: Low vases with blue silk filled with different types of white flowers alongside covered glasses with blue paper lace and placed pillar candles inside from Douglas Kent Design, Chicago via The Knot. Above at left: Orchids emerged in a tall cylinder by Barr Mansion And Artisan Ballroom via The Knot. Middle: CB2 cylinder vases in assorted sizes; $8.95 - $39.95. At right: Orchids submerged in tall glass by Flourish Floral Productions via The Knot. Also don't forget to check out Brooklyn Bride's guest post on Design Sponge. Yesterday was all about floral. Above left: Pottery Barn African Handled Wood Vessel makes a great vessel for simple green silhouettes; $99.00 SALE $49.99. At right: Zen-inspired centerpieces created inside oak boxes, handmade by the bride’s brother. Pearl inlays in the shape of cherry blossoms added an ornate touch to the boxes, which were filled with candles, Japanese river rocks, and orchids via The Knot. Above left: Blooms in rosy hues topple over smart, square vases illuminated by Moroccan inspired votives via InStyle Weddings. At right: West Elm artisanal glass pot in espresso mini stripe:each: $29.00 sale: $19.99 .

Above left: West Elm art glass small bulb collection: set of 3 for $15. Right: Glass vases filled with geometric branches and hanging capris strings by Mi Mi Design Wedding Planning, Minneapolis via The Knot. Below left: Designer Nico De Swert creates a tropical Turks & Caicos wedding for Brides Magazine. Amapuri china by Lambert and a centerpiece of pink orchids and White Giant carnations. Footed bowls, $42; bud vases (as wedding favors), $9 each, both from the Conran Shop. At right: West Elm artisanal glass collection in opal; set of 3: $69.00 sale: $44.99.
{Photo credits: Rachael Silvers Photography, Rachael Silvers Photography, Amelia Tarbet Photography , Lisa Lefkowitz Photography, Domenico Castaldo, Janis Foley Photography, Meg Smith, Luca Trovato. }

red carpet wedding style: mischa barton

Always a fan of Mischa Barton, I love her recent laid back look while in Cannes. The tiered white gown with a patterned panel at the waist is actually a modified Matthew Williamson embellished dropped waist dress form the designers Spring 2008 collection.
The details on Mischa's dress remind me of those beaded belts I went nuts over in high school. I remember scouring the mall for decorated belts, Thunderbird Minnetonka Moccasins and make your own bead kits. Although I haven't been tempted since, now that summer is here it may be time for a trip to Beadworks. This collection from Lucky magazine brings back memories of summer Dave Matthews Band lawn seats, patchwork jeans and stacks of cotton printed tops that have long since been packed away. The blog The Finer Things breaks it all down with a collection of tribal pieces not to be confused. And for a high end hippie treat, Style.com has pegged Hippie Revival as a top trend for Spring 2008.

{Photo credit: Madame Dior, Lucky}

all that glitters is venice

When Rosie Parson, a UK based wedding photographer, sent me this portfolio from her recent collaboration in Venice, I had to pinch myself. Venice. Venice. Oh Venice. I know you well and love you more. A city like this is best enjoyed in silence, at night and under the influence of total captivation. Fall is wonderful. Winter may be even better. And that dress you've been saving for a special occasion, pack that and nothing else. For a behind the scenes look into Rosie's photo shoot and collaboration, check out her blog."This dramatic backdrop of glorious colours and glittering waterways was chosen by photographer Rosie Parsons to capture the incomparable romance of the new collection of wedding gowns by Venetian designer Anna Molin. Her incredible dresses feature clean, flowing lines and contemporary styling while retaining a traditional feel – perfect for modern brides who want to put their own twist on the classic bridal look."

Available at L'Atelier Molin, the dresses were accessorised with jewellery and hair accessories by up-and-coming designer Hannah Salomon of Kutuu and vintage jewellery specialists Flo & Percy. Hannah's work can also be found in her Etsy shop. Hannah is a talented jeweller from North Wales uses silver to create personalised pins with monograms of the happy couple's initials that can be used in the hair, or even inserted into bouquets for an unusual personal touch.
The collections were perfectly placed in two of Venice’s most luxurious hotels – the Palazzo Stern and the Locanda Vivaldi. The Locanda Vivaldi is a boutique hotel only a short walk from St Mark’s Square, and features Murano glass chandeliers. The Palazzo Stern has only just reopened after a major refurbishment, and Rosie was the first photographer to be granted access to its prestigious interiors featuring Moorish design from its 15th century roots and filled with pieces of art collected by the owners, the Stern family.
{Photo and copy credits: Rosie Parsons}

squared away

You wouldn't wear flip flops with a Carolina Herrera gown. You wouldn't serve champagne in a pint glass. So what sense does pairing your custom stationary with a clunky liberty bell postage stamp make? None. Think of the postage as an extension of your invitation suite. Much like the calligraphy, a lovely stamp is a finishing details not to be overlooked. Don't underestimate the importance that tiny square. It's a detail not to be overlooked. At top, Floral Pattern Stripe Invitation by The Happy Envelope paired with Love Blue Postage stamp created by TheKnot for zazzle.


A thoughtful invitation gets me excited for the big event and stays on my fridge long after the night is over. Above, Chandelier Invitation by Paper + Cup paired with romantic and elegant wedding postage stamp created by CHICKPOSTAGE for zazzle.



Bryn Invitation by Mia Carta paired with Blue Spring Flowers by created by Cheries_Art for zazzle.


A wedding invitation is one of the most important invites you'll extend and nothing is more exciting for your guests than receiving theirs in the mail. Above, Queen Anne's Lace Invitation by The Happy Envelope paired with brown pretty leafy stamp created by amosopus for zazzle.


Bloom Invitation by Blonde paired with An elegant brown flower created by amosopus for zazzle. Zazzle is a great resource for custom postage. The price per stamp is a bit higher but I managed to find a few online coupons here and then received another coupon when my first order arrived.

real wedding: jesse and thom's day after shoot

Jesse was kind enough to share her Day After shoot with me. I think it's safe to say I'm not the only one who wanted more after getting a peak at their wedding yesterday. I am curious as to how many brides out there elected for day after photo shoots. I'm thinking of calling up Scuola Lorenzo de' Medici where I studied abroad in Florence and asking if we can hire a photography student for a few hours to shoot some day after shots during the honeymoon. Good idea? Meanwhile, enjoy this little look around San Miguel de Allende with Jesse and Thom. I love the converse sneakers peaking out of her (still gorgeous) Nicole Miller gown. Jesse, you can be my stylist and travel advisor anytime. Which reminds me, tomorrow is Wednesday and Didi will feature another little honeymoon adventure post on her blog, Little Winter Bride.





From Jesse and Thom's Photographers, Labor of Love... this was the funniest shoot i have ever done. we had planned on a day after shoot but had no idea what we were in store for. First we started out at a bar that thom had some kind of awkward situation.
From Jesse...We had such a great time in Mexico and we're just so appreciative that we had photographers that really captured that. And on top of everything else they gave us the gift of an adventure the day after. It's just a bonus that there are amazing pictures from that as well!


More from Jesse...My ceremony dress is by Nicole Miller ($575!) and the BCBG reception dress I found at Bloomingdales on super sale (I think it was $180). I'm having the Nicole Miller dress cut to knee-length and dyed purple so I can wear it again. The bridesmaid dresses were from Nordstrom's (these are just a different color). You might notice that Thom's sister looks like she's wearing a different dress. She had it altered a bit since she wasn't so into the halter. Thom wore a gorgeous Paul Smith suit that we got 50% off. We really wanted to keep our clothing budget low so we could spend that money elsewhere.

no, no, no, no, no

So a No. Not even a funny No. And yet I'm still more excited than ever.

real wedding: jesse and thom


I'm really excited to share Jesse and Thom's Wedding with you. When I first looked through their wedding portfolio, I was blown away by the color and the depth of the photos. I emailed Jesse right away and begged her for all the details. I wanted to know everything. (I also wanted to book my own Mexican holiday right away!) When you read Jesse's comments below, you'll be blown away too. This Brooklyn couple infused their personalities into every corner of their destination wedding. Tomorrow I'll post more from their day after shoot with their photographers, Our Labor of Love. As if it could get any better than this...We got married on April 5th, 2008 in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico which is in central Mexico - about 3 hours from Mexico City. We chose SMA because it's a small artist town with amazing architecture. A lot of ex-pats live there so we thought our less-traveled guests would feel comfortable there as well. And they have darn good tequila!Q. How would you describe your wedding style?
A. Um, non-wedding. I haven't been to many weddings and I was never into the big wedding thing. In fact, I wanted to elope but it was important to my husband to have a celebration. And we do love big parties so that's what we were really trying to do - bring everyone together for great food, drinks and music. Q. What were some of the details you enjoyed designing the most?

A. I'm an Etsy-addict so the wedding was the perfect excuse to contact some of my favorite artists and have custom works created. I loved the boutonnieres we had made. We also ordered rehearsal dinner details (place cards, coasters and garlands) by Letteria, pillow boxes with our names by Field and Sea and custom candy from Papabubble (not etsy - but so friggin' amazing!). We had custom converse for all the groomsmen with their names on them and a tequila tasting table with amazing local tequila. We also had a fantastic local band that got everybody going - Pila Seca. Perhaps my very favorite detail was our specialty cocktails which were really tied to who we are and how we came to be. Q. What was the greatest source of inspiration behind your wedding?

A. I love hot spicy food. And Mexico was a strategic decision. Our whole wedding was spicy - in flavor and feeling. I had chili peppers in my bouquet as well as in the food!
Q. How did you pick your vendors?

A. Each person we chose to be a part of our celebration was a joy to work with and added a special something to our experience. But - without a doubt - Whitney and Jesse from Our Labor of Love are two of the most amazing people I've ever met. They are beyond talented. I ran across them on WeddingBee, saw their website, spoke to them and fell in love immediately. I had talked with several photographers that fit our requirements - would travel, non-traditional and a mix of photo-journalism and location "day-after" magic. Then we met them and they blew our minds. We were them - they were us. And it was so perfect to have them part of this intensely personal experience. They're even coming to Thanksgiving this year!

The only other thing I would add is that we're both vegetarians and planning food (for three days!) for 80 people is not easy - but including our specific tastes was another issue entirely. I'm really proud that we were able to have diverse, flavorful food that catered to everyone's tastes - the vegans and meat-eaters alike. In Mexico, no less! It wasn't easy and took a lot of negotiating and trust (we weren't there to taste everything) but we managed to have a great range of food.In the end, it was a lot of work but it was so us - and worth every stress-pimple, torn fingernail and tearful moment.
{Photo credits: Our Labor of Love}

so long to the single girl

"Sorry. All my friends are taken."

Not really. In fact, several of my very best girlfriends are all spectacularly single. But that line, from Season 6 of Sex and the City (when Carrie thinks Alex is going to ask her for a matchmaking favor,) struck me this afternoon as I celebrated the idea of Vane returning from her honeymoon and Erica currently relaxing in Jamaica both as married woman!! It's the end of an era. (Not really but I had to say it.) In truth, the best is yet to come. Endless congratulations and celebrations to you both!

Tomorrow, the Sex and the City movie will premier in London. What a tease. So many questions waiting to be answered. Here is your chance to weigh in. Will Carrie and Mr. Big finally say "I do?" Brides.com is hosting a survey to find out what brides-to-be think about the "Big" question. (If you read the Parade Magazine interview with SJP, you'll get the answer.)
Engaged women voiced their opinions in the exclusive poll, with a majority (75%) saying that Carrie and Mr. Big should finally exchange wedding vows. A majority (70%) also think Carrie is ready for a real world marriage. However, if Carrie Bradshaw does not end up with Mr. Big, brides are rooting for her to return to furniture designer Aidan Shaw (62%) over Russian artist Aleksandr Petrovsky (2%), with a good percentage (14%) even preferring that the character remain happily single. The idea of a new man in the fictional sex columnist's life also had its fans (19%), but clearly old flame Aidan is the top pick.
{Photo credits: Parade Magazine}

sunday jewels

I am all sorts of caught up in the work of Beth Beljon today. Looking through this wedding in particular is like gazing over the pages of a glossy fashion magazine. Thanks to The Bride's Cafe for these additional details, "The wedding was held at the beautiful Parker Palm Springs Hotel. The bride Susan has an impeccable eye for style. She designed the girl's milk-chocolate chiffon dresses. Tim the groom, dressed all in white and instead of a boutonniere, he wore a jeweled cross on his lapel that was a family heirloom. The guys wore a twill trouser with high-tops and white shirts (untucked) under Susan's strict styling instructions! There were pink peonies everywhere you looked, which is my favorite flower. This is, in my opinion, such a successful wedding on all levels. Susan enhanced the venue without trying to hard to duplicate the "Parker Theme" everywhere." I am madly in love with these bridesmaids dresses. They remind me a bit of Jenny Yoo and her drop waist, chocolate brown silky goodness. The color is delicious and the accessories, totally enviable. Banana Republic has some sparkling jewelry on sale now that remind me of the pieces in these photos. The Parker is known for its Palm Spring style and bold color. These pieces seem like a perfect match.

well said

I would feel selfish if I didn't share all my wisdom, or in this case, your wisdom. Here are all of the answers posted thus far in reference to yesterday's question, "Do you follow trends when it comes to bridal fashion? Or do you just go with what you love?"
Y'all are brilliant. Just brilliant.


{photo credit: jenny ebert}

1. That interview made me sad... maybe she didn't come off well, but she sounded so snobbish. I adore her dresses, but they're not my style... why should brides have to fit the mold? I mean, even in very, very different white dresses, the dress is still bridal white. That's fine if it's what you want, but I think colored sashes are really nice if you want to make a statement. My dress is champagne with colored embroidery and matching kickpleats... sure, it's not every one's style, but it's mine - so it's a reflection of my personality! -GorgesViola

2. I totally disagree. I love the splash of color! It felt slightly irreverent to me on my wedding day, and I liked that. I also felt that my dress was more flattering because the only thing I can claim is a flat stomach, and my bit of pink accentuated that ... I thought. -Chere Amie


{photo credit: one love photo}

3. Well, I think sashes are adorable. My own daughter initially was going to have a blue sash, but in the end decided to go with an organza one which is different than her dress material so it makes a sweet statement without being a color. She is so tiny I doubt any one would think a colored sash cut her in half, but you just have to choose what flatters you and shows off your style! I myself had a sash on my own dress 21 years ago!!! It was pink. And no one else wore them but I thought it was fresh and lovely. Guess I was ahead of the times!I think the sash is definitely a trend which has helped brides design more unique dresses, and that is a good thing. If you don't leave any room for personality you just look like every other bride in a white dress. I like the sashes, even if it is a trend that becomes overused and eventually is dated. I think it is a step in the right direction and everyone can find unique ways to personalize their dress, sash or otherwise. - http://theinspiredroom.wordpress.com/


{Photo credits: Beth Beljon via Faye and Greer.}


4. Well, I can't say I completely disagree with her. When I had my dress made last year, I was dead set on having a blue sash. And when I went for the first fitting, I absolutely loved it. It was a gorgeous, sophisticated, antique blue in silk charmeusse. But a friend of mine who accompanied me that day took pictures, and when I got home and looked at them, I realized that my eye went straight to that sash in every picture. I thought I was being crazy, so I asked some other friends their opinions and they agreed. It drew focus from where the focus should have been: the face. So I switched the sash to ivory, and I am really happy I did. I am only 5'2", and I hadn't realized how much the colored sash was chopping the line of my body and making me appear shorter until after it was changed.Now that being said, I have seen plenty of girls in dresses with colored sashes, and thought they looked absolutely stunning. I think it is just a matter of knowing what looks best on you and your frame. In the same way, that I tend not to wear large prints, since I am petite and feel they overwhelm me, but someone with more height can carry them off. I don't think you can claim that one style is either universally good, or universally bad. -fatafelice

5. I felt a bit put off when I read that interview as well...I am thinking of wearing a black sash and accessories for my wedding...and I decided that because I felt it added rather than took away from my look...and accessorizing is something I do in my everyday outfits anyway, so it just seemed natural. -Anonymous

{Photo credits: Beth Beljon}

6. I agree with EF. A sash looks trendy to me rather than timeless. It will feel dated when you look back at the pictures.I thought her interview rocked. I'm going to throw a "Champagne party" as soon as I've got enough married girlfriends to show up in their wedding dresses. THOSE will be great pictures! -east side bride

7. Funny she said that b/c I was almost positive I was going to get a Paloma Blanca dress with strapless, sweetheart lace top, organza bottom and a slate blue sash. My mom and sister loved it. Then when I tried it on for a friend she made the comment about it cutting me in half and that the other dress (the one I bought) was more flattering. Also, I did think to myself, "will I hate the fact that I have color on my wedding dress in 15 years?" I think it is really hard not to look dated when many years go by, so I say go with what you love. I do keep seeing dresses with the sash on real brides and sometimes think maybe I should have done it b/c I think it is really cute. But I love the dress I got just as much. -Natasha

{photo credit: laura novak photography}


8. I personally have always disliked this particular trend. I just don't see the appeal. I loved the article and was relieved to see an expert say that it's time to put this trend to rest.Trendy or not, I think we can all agree that you must do what makes you feel amazing. And if this sash thing is your thing, do it! We don't need an expert to tell us that. -Veronica

9. Personally, I love sashes and a splash of color! I think a sash can accentuate a tiny waist or hide a little tummy. But, no matter the trend or the timeless, every bride should go with her heart and have the dress she wants! -Wendy

tell me this

I was surprised when I read Elizabeth Fillmore's "Ask the Experts" interview in the most recent edition of New York Weddings. "It chops the dress in half," she said in reference to the colored sashes seen everywhere. "It draws attention to the wrong place. It's a recent trend and I want to it to go away." I'm all for long and lean but does she have a point? Do you follow trends when it comes to bridal fashion? Or do you just go with what you love?

Paloma Blanca Sweetheart neckline lace bodice. Ribbon and bow at waist. Duchess silk fit-and-flare skirt. natural satin gown with princess-cut skirt and plum ribbon, $1,300, by Mikaella Bridal.
Edgardo Bonilla Ivory gown with ruffled-tulle skirt.
Jessica McClintock dress with lavender satin sash brings a subtle purple punch to a satin bustier gown.

belt it {blue}

Yesterday, I was casually flipping through the Daily News checking out Mariah's wedding photos when I spotted this spread. All of Hollywood is jumping on the belt bandwagon. "It" belts have replaced "It" bags," says Glamour's executive fashion editor, Suze Yalof. Below, styles from Bebe, Alice + Olivia, Nine West, Target and American Eagle (all under $55) can keep you cool and under budget.

Thanks to This is Glamorous for her Blue Satin Sashes roundup. Sashes are the bride's belt equivalent. This week is turning out to be a study in color and I can't get enough.
Credits: Piper Weiss for the Daily News, Richard Corkery/Daily News

best in blog: coco + kelley

It amazes me how much imagination is everywhere. Coco + Kelley has posted one of THE most amazing collections of dresses and decor. She has such a sophisticated eye and endless good taste (as evident by her picks for Registry Bliss.) Her post really redefines trends in the sense that true style is transcending. That which looks beautiful in a room will also look beautiful on the runway. Above, a perfectly chic violet and yellow vignette via All Things Bright & Beautiful and this very chic dress from Marc Jacobs. And below, a duo from a previous Perfect Bound post.

stealing beauty

Here is a sneak peak at my Minted guest post inspired by the Olea Invitation by Egg Press. To get the details, you'll have to click here. Not that it's a surprise I dreamed up another Italian fantasy complete with olive groves and Tuscan villas. I blame Bernardo Bertolucci for his film Stealing Beauty which will forever remain my favorite. The soundtrack alone is worth watching it not to mention the plot which only further works to flatter scene after scene of amazing Italian landscape. If you haven't already discovered Little Winter Bride, I suggest you mark your calendars. Every Wednesday, Didi is going to feature advise and insight on traveling in Italy. First stop, Milan.

This is also a perfect time to mention that Jessie (of Zesty Perspective) and I are working on a reoccurring series called Sets in the City. Inspired by the greatest movies of all time, we're charting a cinema inspired wedding trip around the world. (no tickets needed.)

Photo credits: Design Smack.

sex and the city fashion trend

Belts are everywhere; always have been, always will be. Though the styles continue to evolve, it would seem you are never full dressed without a belt. Just ask Sex and the City designer Patricia Field. Oprah's Sex and the City Movie episode offered viewers a chance to hear from the famed designer who let us know we'll be seeing belts, lots of belts, when the movie premiers. “People have been waiting a while to see these ladies,” Michael Patrick King said in a recent article. “And when they see these ladies, they’re going to see some color, and they’re going to see some new ideas. Pat is at the top of her game.” Field’s work included more than 80 costumes for Sarah Jessica Parker alone, according to producer John Melfi. “Then if you count 80 looks, you’re also talking about accessories, shoes and millions of dollars' worth of jewelry,” he says.







At top, a recent Armstrong ad featuring I Love Lucy, the original style diva, belted and beautiful. For more belts in fashion and art, check out This is Glamorous and Zesty Perspective.

Photos: Craig Blankenhorn/New Line Cinema via FashionTribe. OK!, March 24, “SATC Goes Vogue!”

bridal jewelry giveaway


The Beautiful Garden Boutique is giving away $250 worth of jewelry! To enter, visit the Bridal Jewelry Collection then their blog and leave a comment about your favorite piece. Everyone who enters will be given a 20% off coupon towards their total order from our Bridal Jewelry Collection as well. The winner will be announced on May 16, so don't wait to enter! Good luck readers!
To view all of my jewelry posts, click here.

red carpet wedding style: scarlett johansson

Newly engaged and clearly happy about it, Scarlett Johansson showed off her sparkler at The Met Costume Institute Gala in New York. Perhaps she too is a fan the ballet modeling her look after this Snippet & Ink enchanting ballet inspired inspiration board or this ballet board from Classic Bride. The Dolce & Gabbana ivory tulle tea-length gown with corseted bodice and grosgrain ribbon waistband detail shows of her famous curves while keeping things sweet. Love the look? Take your pick from several ballet inspired gowns from the Spring 2008 collections such as this blush embroidered lace–and-tulle ball gown with pearl bridal buttons, $5,400, by Lara Helene Bridal Atelier. Badgley Miscska (below) with ribbon waistband and sweetheart neck. Above, a Nathalie Durieux design with blue satin ribbon no doubt inspired by Edgar Degas and his famous ballerinas as featured on Nibs. Check out Martha's entire post, Masterpiece + Designer = Original Wedding Gown for more tulle and tiaras.
Below, Peter Som pink and black ballet inspired gown along side Michael Kors. Below, white tulle ruffled halter gown by Peter Soronen.


Photo credit: Andrew Walker / Getty Images and Soren Mork.

tie me up

Too much? I say when it comes to sexy, there's never enough. Lina Fanourakis via Gem Jewelry Boutique, a newly discovered blog that is quick to dazzle.

rock and roll

Didi's email got me thinking about Milan and the hidden jewels that I imagine she's uncovered while living there. Italian designer Luna Scamuzzi creates such gems out of the most intriguing stones and gold pieces. Her company, Lucifer Vir Honestus, is named after the the first medieval Milan jeweler who I imagine to be quite ornate himself. These were originally featured in InStyle and walk a bit on the wild side. One is all you need to make a bang.

mark ingram bridal atelier

Sunday's forecast is for rain and my remote is poised to run through the past two weeks of Gossip Girl in preparation for Monday's episode where Mark Ingram Bridal Atelier will make a guest appearance. Without giving too much away, I can tell you that we'll get an exclusive look into the gorgeous Mark Ingram Bridal Atelier while Lily Van der Woodsen shops for her wedding gown there. "The production, set design and art direction teams at Gossip Girl all worked directly with Mr. Ingram to recreate his Bridal Atelier at their studio in Long Island City. The furniture, wallpaper and dressing rooms were all mimicked to represent Mr. Ingram’s personally decorated Atelier. All of the gowns displayed on set were chosen by Mr. Ingram to be included in the scene. Even the mannequins used came directly from the Bridal Atelier." While there are other shows (you know the ones) that portray New York City wedding salons as tacky, pushy and tasteless, this episode will reflect another side of the industry. There are many first class, high end bridal boutiques across the country that check the attitude at the door and cater to making your shopping experience as memorable as possible. (To read about mine, go here.) “I was beyond thrilled to be a part of Gossip Girl,” said Mr. Ingram. “As a life long New Yorker who works in fashion, I am of course a fan of the show. Although I was honored to personally be included in the scenes, I was most impressed by how my salon was accurately portrayed; as a refined, upscale salon with beautiful and elegant designer gowns. Too often television and film misrepresent and stereotype our industry as pushy and overbearing with overdone and tacky merchandise. I am thankful I was able to highlight bridal’s elegant side,” explained Mr. Ingram. Mr. Ingram is pictured below (with Martha Stewart Weddings Editor, Darcy Miller) at last week's BFF Bridal event where some of his gorgeous gowns were on display.
Photo and copy credits: CWTV, Jenny Ebert via BFF Bridal Event, copy by Lindsay Mann.

take me to tuscany (on monday)

I'm happy to announce announce that my guest blog, Destination Tuscany, will be posted on the Design Roundtable at Minted on Monday. As we near the 5 month countdown to our October wedding, I am growing increasingly anxious but also excited. The vision is coming together after countless inspiration boards, color palettes and photographs. Let me know what you think when you check in on Monday.


Until then, enjoy Minted's Save-the-Date Cards Design Challenge. Minted, a new online store offering custom stationery and invitations, asked designers to create a customizable save-the-date card that would accommodate a couple's own photo. Brilliant. The are over 60 designs to choose from. So get started. Above, one of my favorites by Sweet Paper Studio.

real wedding: didi and ambrogio

I am honored to share one of the most beautiful weddings featured on Perfect Bound thus far. The lovely Didi of the blog Little Winter Bride emailed me offering to share some insider tips on honeymooning in Italy and some photos from her recent wedding. Didi and her husband have been living in Milan for about a year and a half now. The Brooklynite inside her inspired her to travel back home and host this gorgeous New York affair held last February in Gramercy Park. Based on these photos, I can only imagine the kind of magical places she has discovered in Italy as well. Grazie Didi!

The wedding was held at the Player's Club on Gramercy Park, a private club that is open to non-members (for a fee, of course.) She describes the venue as having a vintage/library/bohemian feel- exactly the kind of vibe that hooked us on our venue as well. Her blog is a great treasure for anyone planning a wedding and inspired by the little details that go along with it. She has gathered a enviable collection of resources and recommendations. My favorite, of course, are the endless photos of her wedding.

Photography by Belathee. For a full list of Didi's vendors, check out her beautiful blog.

face time giveaway

I couldn't get enough of Face Time at this week's BFF Bridal event. Now it's your turn. Leave a comment describing the Beauty in a Box look that best describes your wedding or personal style: Sultry, Stunning or Romantic. Face Time will pick a winner to receive their #1 best seller, Velvet Veil.
A silicone based primer that evens skin tone and creates a flawless face, Velvet Veil is perfect for any skin type. (Just ask beauty blog expert, Blogdorf Goodman.) A good primer will smooth out the complexion and even out the surface of the skin, so anything that is applied afterwards glides on evenly. Think of it as the sexxy lingerie you wear under that little black dress. Thanks to Linsey and the girls of Face Time for the Sultry makeover last night! Read about Linsey Snyder, owner of Face Time Cosmetics, at The Brides Cafe where she was recently interviewed. Interested in a consult or booking an appointment for your upcoming event? Brides and bridal parties can get 15% off of makeup services for their weddings if they email hauteline@facetimecosmetics.com and mention Perfect Bound! Wow.

Photo credits: Jenny Ebert

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